Tag: secure attachment

  • The Scapegoat’s Guide to Finding Love

    The Scapegoat’s Guide to Finding Love

    I saw love as a blurred, distant figure. It was never something close to me—just an idea, a concept, almost like a collage mostly from films, books, and music. I am a former scapegoat. In my family system, my parents chose me as the person to blame for all their…